Sex and the City

Things men can learn watching 'Sex and the City'. Men make your peace with it and begin to use it to your advantage !!!

5. Modern women can be suspicious and cynical about romantic gestures
Evidence: Carrie chastises a Russian painter for reading love poem to her
Lesson learned: Outside of the big holidays, valentine's day and christmas, attempts to providewomen with romantic gifts are generally futile.

4. Women can sabotage their relationships to make them fail
Evidence: Samantha cheated on her boyfriend and even told him before she did it. why? Because she was nervous about being in a long term relationship and was hoping to use her infidelity as a means to push him away.
Lesson learned: When a relationship goes sour, know that there is a good chance it wasnt beer and sports tht drove your girlfriend away; it was her own neurosis.

3. Women like to drink
Evidence: Women on the show open their mouth for 3 reasons: talking, eating and pounding back liquor.
Lesson learned: Alcohol is the quickest way to bring basic human drives - such as agression, sadness and most importantly, sex - to the forefront of any social interaction This reminds me of an sms i recieved - whn luv fails emotion works, whn emotions fail memories work, when memeories fail words work, when words fail tears work and when everything fails - 90 ml of vodka - it definately works... hehe

2. Despite their cynicism about romance, the word 'love' is still very important to women
Evidence: Though Carrie and her boyfriend went to a party together, she had no problem leaving with one of the waiters. Because the boyfriend hadn't told her he loved her yet, and in the words of Carrie Bradshaw, "Everything before 'I Love You' just dosent count."
Lesson learned: The word love has become a key marker that often determines when a relationship becomes monogamous. This means tht even if you think you are in an exclusive relationship, unless you've dropped the "L-bomb" there is a good chance she is still assessing the other romantic options available to her.

1. All women are different
Evidence: There is a reason no man has been able to capture more than one heart from the ‘Sex and the City’ gang: All women are different, and works for one woman in the realm of romance might not work for another.
Lesson learned: Just because most women have changed their values and norms when it comes to sex and relationships, it doesnt mean tht their personalities hv become synchronized as well. (I particularly agree to this lesson)